Saturday, April 18, 2015

Entry #4 Smile More

 There are points in life when everything seems to be just pure chaos. Especially now in that we are in college we have yet to discover who we are. We roam these halls self-conscious. This nagging sense of un-accomplishment linger in our heads. It doesn’t help when people around us seem to have everything figured out. The reason behind this is that we know our flaws, and in result, we think people notice them as much as we do. When in reality so much is going on that people rarely notice subtle things that seem like a giant flaw to us. Only if you knew how little people remember simple, embarrassing mistakes that can occur during an interaction. Don’t believe me then believe science. Ok that example might of been a bit over the top but a crooked smile is less noticeable than a gorilla trust me. People seem invulnerable from a far we wear a mask in the public sphere; but if we look closely we can see the cracks that reveal who we really are. So why stress what people think about you? When in reality they think you are kind of...awesome. Focus on what ever is important to you instead of constantly worrying about people that will forget us once we leave. 


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